How to achieve a quality love relationship

To love someone is actually questioning ourselves, our inner strength and faith, how much we are able to give ourselves to another, and more importantly, how willing we are to change. Every novelty in life means a certain change, including an emotional connection. Love is not static, it is hyperactive, it is a skilled trader: as much as you invest and give, you will get as much back.

When two people's relationships have reached a stage of tension and discontent, then they will need to stop and ask themselves where the problem is? It is true that it takes two for love as well as for quarrel, but you must not use this as an argument to justify your mistakes. As soon as we start approaching without self-criticism, convinced that we are good and correct and the other side is not, know immediately that you have become the biggest problem.

Although I always emphasize that love has three foundations: open communication, understanding, and accepting your partner as he is, without the intention of changing him, it often happens that we take these guidelines too lightly without thinking about their real meaning.


Open conversations

Communication is very important for a successful relationship, maybe even crucial, but also, a lot of pointless talking does more harm than good. The conversations must not be superficial, the depths of a certain closeness should be entered and opened. This is a serious problem for most people, especially for those who do not have enough confidence, so they are horrified by such communications, convinced that they will turn out to be weak, vulnerable and stupid. But in fact, they already are all of that. By discovering ourselves and communicating clearly, the only thing we can get out of it, is what we currently do not have - confidence. Open conversations strengthen the character, and evoke consciousness from narrow views and certainly bring relaxation in the long run. We must not allow ourselves to hide behind the ego, because only cowards are hiding there. Why be ashamed of yourself? As long as we do this, we will never take control of our lives.

Also, stay away from projections.

We often hear the statement, especially from women, when describing the qualities of a desirable man, the one they want as a partner, that he must be humorous. And do you know what kind of women this is? The ones who are not humorous themselves, and actually expect someone else to entertain them and make them laugh. Like a clown. A certain amount of humor is certainly desirable because laughter relaxes, brings serenity and optimism to the relationship, but if one thinks that humor will solve something crucial, they are wrong.

We are not all humorous, nor do we need to be. Paying attention and care greatly compensates for a person's lack of humor. Furthermore, experience has shown that men who turn everything into a joke are subconsciously afraid of getting attached, and humor serves them to avoid serious communication. The one where they reveal themselves and talk about themselves. Remember, who does not open up to you is not a silent person, but simply you are not interesting enough for him to want to do it.


Understanding yourself and the other

When the relationship starts, it should be depreciated. It is not advisable to simply let it all settle down, as this often solves nothing but deepens the crisis and creates resentment.

The rule is to be aware of the other person, their presence and thinking. We are all different, and that is great, but that is no barrier for developing one of the most beautiful human virtues - understanding. I want to emphasize that understanding is not justification for one's stupidity. And it should not be misused. Perhaps this is the best way to explain: the parent always loves his child, no matter what nonsense he does, but the parent loves only the child but not his stupidity. It's separate. In the same way, you should approach to the event of a crisis, which is caused by some stupidity of your partner. Also, no one likes being offended and verbally humiliated, so forget about that approach right away. Such an approach will certainly not solve anything, but it will do just the opposite - it will further complicate everything.

When solving a problem, then we should also look at it from the perspective of another person, and thus try to understand what actually happened and why. Also, forget the statement that this could never happen to you, because it is simply not true, and only demonstrates your ego and misunderstanding. We can make far greater mistakes than those we want to share moral and other life lessons with.

And what is most important is the compromise, which is based on the principle "it must not be either how i want it or how you want it, but we should find ourselves somewhere in between". We are both in this, it concerns us equally and it has an impact on our relationship and our shared lives. It's not you, it's not me, it's - us.




Accept the person as they are


The most common problem we make in a relationship is the desire to design a partner as we please. This clearly and loudly shows a lack of basic respect. Why do you think everything is right with you? What makes you so convinced that your style of dress, expression and behavior is the right one? After all, you fell in love with that person that you now want to change. Initially, you didn't mind anything about that person. So, the problem is not in your parter, but in you. Therefore, do not in any way treat your complexes and frustrations on others, as you will ruin your life.

The real and basic truth is that we all change when it suits us, and not because of others. A change in force is not a change but a source of frustration, which will sooner or later erupt and complicate everything. We all change through life, both physically and characterually, and it is simply a process that should not be exerted by force, but let it go in its own course. There is no better partner than the one who feels good in their own skin.

Who are the karmic partners

Throughout our lives we meet new people, some we get to know superficially and some more deeply, but each individual leaves some relative mark on us. Humans are, like everything around us, energy; therefore, each person has in his or her life persons who are appropriate for  them in a certain way, either characteristically, physically, by their fluid or yet repulsive to them. That is the essence of energy - attraction and repulsion.

But what about people who mean more to us than others, and who we rightly call special? I'm not referring to those classic falling in love here because love, like everything else, has its expiration date. Love like fire ignites us, burns us, then smokes and extinguishes. This probably happens as a result of the fact that every person is unstoppably changing psychologically and physically throughout life, and after a while we realize that we are no longer the same person a year or more ago. And accordingly, we have changed somewhat the perception of ourselves and the world around us. What suited us yesterday is probably not so important today. However, this should not scare or worry you as it is a completely normal sequence of events in everyone's life. After all, it is in the primal nature of man to always move on.


The soul in search of the soul

It is difficult to say whether or not there are karmic partners. Apart from birth and death, we cannot be absolutely sure of anything else. But this should never stop us from exploring and expanding our horizons. Also, it is important to know how to separate the grain from the weeds, meaning, the good from the bad. Today, we are literally overwhelmed with all sorts of philosophies, views and opinions, most of which are superficial and fictitious in order to please the masses. The best example is reincarnation. Everyone who allegedly dealt with this was in the past life some famous or rich person, few have had an average or poor life. And that is simply impossible. Reincarnation really does exist, and we see the best evidence in nature. A nature that literally dies and is reborn through the change of seasons. But somehow, I always get the feeling that wisdom ceases to be wisdom when everyone starts to deal with it, because a crowd of men will always make a foolishness out of wisdom.

Returning to the karmic partners topic; as I have already noted, it is in human nature that it constantly strives to go forward, and so our souls tend to the same. But unlike the body, which longs for material pleasures, the soul has only one goal - to connect with its soulmate and become complete.

The soul is universal and does not possess gender, nor does this definition mean anything to it. By entering the human, animal or plant body, the soul bestows upon it a life without which nothing grows or develops. For the soul, every new body is actually a new experience and realization. As a plant, it will experience a strong connection to the Earth and its energy. In the body of the animal, all senses will live intensely and so much knowledge will be absorbed, and in the body of a man it will realize the power of the mind.


Through all these indescribable odyssey, the soul will constantly strive for unification and harmony. Because, after all, we are not complete when we are alone, only a part of it is filled. The whole universe, including the Earth, is built on the principle of reciprocity; everything relies on one another and nothing can exist for itself. Since we are all energy, we all transform into one another or, to put it simply, nourish one another, starting with bacteria and beyond. So, in order for our physical body to exist, it must eat. But the soul does not need that kind of food but the pure, energetic one that we humans call love. And this is where we slowly reach our karmic partners. However, first of all, one must distinguish between what is fateful and what is karmic partner.


Human destiny as a mission

Everyone who lives, carries with them their destiny, and therefore, there are many people in his or her life, from parents, family, children, relatives, friends, lovers, mistresses, to husbands and wives. Because of the hormones and the natural desire to create a family and live like everyone around us, we marry, very often because of a passion for someone, or out of desperation not to grow old on our own, or we simply marry because of calculations. Whether we are driven by emotions or practical interest, marriage is formed. After a period of time, as many world statistics relentlessly show, most marriages break down and divorce. Let's understand each other - this is still a positive epilogue to the situation where partners are literally living with each other, waiting for their children to grow up, or secretly hoping for a spouse to die first, so that they become free to finally get on with their lives.

In fact, all of this is human fate or in other words, mission. With a person we can have a  mission to create children, to build a house with someone, to spend everything with someone, to make us happy or hurt us a lot. When that mission is fulfilled, then the meaning of our life together disappears and then we enter a vacuum. No love, no luck. We wait for some miracle, and we console ourselves and feed only hope. And the only thing that happens is that we become nervous, angry, dissatisfied, scared. Basically - unhappy.


A meeting after which nothing is the same anymore

The reason why the most people in the world are unhappy is because they never meet their karmic partners through life and never become complete. Despite all other fulfilling goals, such as having a successful career, their life until death is meaningless. Money is not important to the soul, but only love, and that is why nothing else can satisfy it. Such people either have a fair number of partners through life as they unwittingly search for the right person, or live alone.

When we meet our karmic partner then happens the so called bonding of souls. An indescribable sense of unification and peace. We are becoming complete. Sometimes it can happen that one partner dies after a while (or many years) but the one who remains to live, despite the loss, is not unhappy because he is still living in harmony. There are many such examples, and perhaps one of the most famous is Josipa Lisac and Karlo Metikos.

Finally, it should be emphasized that there is no method by which we can detect a karmic partner. Him or her our soul literally "feels" as the human mind feels the body. Among some esoteric circles, it is thought that persons with natal horoscope Moon in Pisces, because of their more pronounced sensibility and empathy, can most easily recognize a soul mate.

Other interesting points are that it is absolutely wrong to think that we have to be madly in love with karmic partners and have a fantastic sexual relationship. Remember that the soul does not know gender. That is why karmic partners can be our parents, children, spouses, friends, relatives or even someone you saw in a picture and who lives on another continent. Someone you can criticize, judge, love, even hate for a while, avoid, but you can never be indifferent, and whose happiness is as important to you as your own. Someone you've been attached to with your heart and thoughts all your life, or at least from the moment you met him. Agatha Christie expressed herself very well on the subject when she wrote a sentence in one of her novels:" It was one of those moments when you know that nothing will ever be the same again."

Our faces - we're not as good as we think​

Today, in the myriad of psychological manuals, so-called popular psychology, and all kinds of media coverage, we are literally in the middle of a mix of everything. Everyone advises and recommends something, but most of these suggestions, although probably well-intentioned, can greatly complicate one's life if misunderstood and applied. People generally understand everything the way it suits them.

In popular psychology as well as in religion, one is literally forced to be something that is unnatural and therefore impossible. We are dualistic beings, with the same propensity for good and evil, and we cannot be constantly good, cheerful and positive. Also, we cannot constantly tell ourselves how beautiful and successful we are, or that we keep repeating various nonsense, and the universe, like the spirit from the magic lamp, will hear and fulfill our desires. But it won't, because none of this is realistic and possible and nothing can work that way. Life is far from fantasy, it is fundamentally changeable, we all have good and bad stages, periods and years. One day we can be in a good mood, and tomorrow in a bad mood.

Nothing is exclusively black and white, but mostly gray. No one is absolutely good or absolutely bad. Since ancient times, philosophers and sages have said that in every good there is at least one grain of evil and vice versa. We are all just people with many flaws and virtues, capable of great nobility and great cruelty. And most importantly - we are all originals. There are no two identical people in the world. Even the twins, who are often physically completely identical, characteristically differ from one another. Therefore, everyone should seek their own path and way of life, and not live according to someone else's directions.

As a young boy, I heard from an old woman that every man has three paths in front of him: the path of good, the path of evil, and the third path that we design for ourselves. I think most of us choose this last one because it suits us best. The first two are immensely difficult and require too much effort from us, whether we are extremely good or bad, and each leads to suffering and eventual downfall.


Life like a fairy tale and a soap opera

None of us is the epicenter of the world, and the world does not revolve around us and because of us. You have noticed that when a celebrity dies, who has influenced millions of people with his/her talent, life goes on for everyone, and no one decides to stop anything because of their death, let alone because of us, the anonymous men.

Therefore, be very careful in interpreting those suggestions that you should put yourself first, and be egotistical, and let others obey you and your will. Try telling your boss at work something like this; let's say you will be half an hour late for work every day because you don't want stress. Or try telling your family to start taking care of themselves from now on, because you've been reading some book, and finally realized that you are a priceless gift under this sky. Their reaction will bring you down to earth quickly.

We must admit that it is very nice when someone through some text empowers you and raises your ego, but you do not live in a fairy tale. There is a completely different world out there that requires a lot of tolerance, flexibility, common sense and cooperation from us. We cannot do without each other and we actually do depend on each other, therefore we must all cultivate tolerance and understanding. This is what these manuals will not suggest, because supposedly each of us deserves only the best. There are awful monsters all around us, but only we are angels. Doesn't that remind you of all fairy tales and soap operas? The similarity is too great to ignore. But of course it is absurd to say that one should not love oneself, but that love must be expressed in a healthy and realistic way. Not like self-obsession.


Stop playing the victim

There are no perfect people, perfect relationships, partners or perfect lives. Everything is subject to constant change and thus an uncertain future. The most important thing throughout life is to step out of the role of victim and take responsibility. When you do this, no matter how old you are, know that you are finally grown and mature.

Blaming parents, children, partners, friends or the state for their own problems is a vicious cycle of frustration and bitterness. As long as you act as a victim and accuse others for your own recklessness and incompetence, you are in fact running away from responsibility and never taking control of your life. And this is because we consider ourselves to be a very good person, who helped everyone, did no harm to anyone, and others were unjust and ungrateful to us and did not appreciate or respect us. In fact, it only hurts us that others did not behave the way we wanted them to, and our ego cannot tolerate that.

There are still layers of human hypocrisy emerging here. Most of us help others solely for our own personal interest, there is no real benevolence here. And then when these individuals do not reciprocate to us as we expect them to, our ego  goes wild. Therefore, it is not true helping, and it should not be considered as such. When we help someone wholeheartedly, we only do it because it makes us happy and satisfied. We do not expect anything in return, not even from God, because to help someone is a gift in itself. If we love someone then we love him as he is, with all his faults and virtues, because when it comes to love, there is no blackmail and conditioning.

Getting involved with a taken person, consciously giving money to a person who is known for not repaying debt, overeating, living messy, gossiping, stealing, enduring abuse and so much more, is only our choice and we have no right to blame anyone. No one put a gun to our forehead and said we have to do something. Things that are done under duress are certainly not our choice and we are not to blame, but we must take responsibility for everything else. As soon as we do this and point the finger of guilt at ourselves, sadness, anger and resentment will disappear. Let's embrace reality and live wiser.


Moderation is the key to everything

The only advice I will give you is the universal one and certainly the most realistic one - be moderate. Nurture moderation in everything without overdoing it in any segment of life. Whatever is exaggerated whether it is love, food, sex, career, learning, religion, or something else, it necessarily translates into a serious disorder and a mental or physical illness.
Man exists on the basis of moderation. Heartbeat, pulse rate, breathing rhythm, all made to work in a uniform rhythm of balance and harmony. As soon as any of it accelerates or slows down we have a serious problem.
Love, hate, surrender, take, but always in moderation, without exaggeration. That is the essence of man, we must not ignore our essence and the truth. Stand in front of the mirror more often and be brutally honest, look at any imperfections on yourself and admit that you do not have the right to criticize anyone else afterwards. We are no better or worse than other people, just be who you are, don't be ashamed of yourself, and don't try to act, behave and look like someone else. As soon as you get to know yourself, your virtues and your flaws, you will become more moderate and the quality of your life will improve.

Mistični put zmije

Bosanski horoskop ima drevnu šamanističku pozadinu jer obuhvata sav živi svijet koji postoji na Zemlji (ljude, životinje, drveće i biljke), a koje prožima mistični put zmije, zapravo prati njenu spiritualnu transformaciju u zmaja, mitsku silu koja simbolizira uskrsnuće i novi život. Po vjerovanju  naših predaka prvi Ilir je nastao od zmije te upravo zbog toga zmija simbolizira početak odnosno prvi znak. Njen povlašteni položaj potvrđuje i predaja bosanskih Bogumila, sljedbenika arijanskog kršćanstva, po kojoj je zmija stvorena na 40 godina prije stvaranja prvog čovjeka. Zmija u svom vijugavom putu kroz svaki naredni znak kruga sudbine utjelovljuje neuništivo sjeme života koje evolucijom poprima drugačije oblike te tako stiče svijest ili znanje o postojanju. Ovo sjeme života predstavlja univerzalnu mudrost koja je zapravo srž duše, božanske manifestacije.


Lični broj


Bosanski horoskop je vrlo kompatibilan sa numerologijom i tu se ova dva divinacijska  sistema savršeno prožimaju i nadopunjuju. Na taj način se stiče vrlo precizan uvid u karakteristike nekog pojedinačnog znaka te osoba rođenih u periodu dok on traje. Ovakav  pristup se pokazao uspješnim pošto podrobnije  rasvjetljava karakteristike nekog pojedinca što u konačnici doprinosi da se bolje razumije ali i odredi njegova sudbina.

Tajna se krije u ličnom broju kojeg posjeduje svako od nas a on se dobija tako da se sabere datum rođenja i svede na jednocifren broj. Slijedi primjer osobe rođene u znaku Ratnika čiji je datum rođenja: 12.03.1980. Navedeni datum se ovako sabira: 1+2+3+1+9+8 = 24/6.

Ovo su neki generalni primjeri i objašnjenja za pojedine lične brojeve i znakove:

Osobe rođene u znaku Žabe, Goluba i Babe sa ličnim brojem 6 su radoholičari, marljivi te karijeristi.

Osobe rođene u znaku Zmije, Žabe i Zviždenjaka, naročito žene, sa ličnim brojem 5 veoma su ljubomorne i posesivne, ali isto tako i spremne da se nesebično daju partneru i žrtvuju.

Osobe rođene u znaku Zmije i Zviždenjaka sa ličnim brojem 1 uglavnom su lijepe vanjštine. No, skoro uvijek, imaju problem sa egom, tvrdoglavošću ali i psihom.

Osobe rođene u znaku Sedefila, Lastavice, Zviždenjaka i Zmije sa ličnim brojevima 1, 3 i 8 najviše su podložne uticaju crne magije, ili generalno negativne energije, te među njima ima najviše žrtvi navedenoga.

Zmija, a posebno Lastavica, imaju naviku da lako daju obećanja ali ih često ne ispunjavaju. Slično je i sa Ratnikom. Sa ova tri znaka treba oprezno ulaziti u poslovne dogovore.

Did i Žaba su znaci osoba koje će vam sigurno pomoći u nevolji ili nekom problemu. Poznati su po tome.

U vrijeme dok vladaju Baba i Did oglašava se kukavica koja i na simboličan način ima veze sa starim ljudima sklonim stalnom kukanju i žaljenju. No, kukavica je tajanstvena i mistična ptica kroz koju progovaraju duhovi mrtvih predaka. U periodu oglašavaja kukavice, dok traje vladavina Babe i Dida, treba moliti za mrtve pretke i paliti svijeće za njihov mir. I kako bi vam pomogli u narednom periodu, naročito u nekim rizičnim situacijama.

Nightingale of a broken heart

George Michael was unique in his appearance, not only on the British music scene but also worldwide. A popstar with a stunning voice, a charismatic look and a very interesting personality.

Most people often wonder why they were born and what their life mission is, but they never get the answer. However, there are people like George Michael, whose answer to this dilemma has always been clear. He was born to sing, amaze and inspire millions of people with his appearance. It was his destiny, the karmic task he accomplished in the best possible way, and moved on. Therefore, he was, without exaggeration, one of the highest quality vocals on the world stage.

George Michael was born on June 25, 1963, in the first lunar phase, the fifth day of the young moon, in a year marked by 13 full moons and 12 young moons. What is interesting in interpreting this data is that persons born in a year with 13 full moons are more prone to vice and internal confusion than the rest.

In the Bosnian horoscope, George was born in the sign of Linden and what is characteristic for the man of this sign is a great emotionality, a strong need to be accepted and a sensitive nature. In public, he always likes to present himself as a strong personality in order to conceal his gentle side. He always expects his partner to give him a lot of attention, even initiative, to which he doubles as he is generous in nature. George Michael was a typical representative of this character who always tried to focus on what he was doing, whether it was conversation or lifestyle, and sought control to keep as much detail about himself as possible in the realm of private and intimate.

Number 5 belongs to George according to numerology. It is a symbol of people who love change and do not come to terms with everyday life and established norms. In addition, the people of this number are resourceful and creative. His numerological chart indicates great emotionality and connection with his family. But he was prone to indecision and often took a long time to make a decision or move in some direction. While in his twenties he had quite a lot of energy, in his thirties, (from the age of 35), he suddenly disappeared, and then his impasse followed: he had neither the will nor the strength to realize new business successes, and was increasingly depressed and suffering from psychological crises.

According to the numerological chart, his most difficult life span begins at 49, culminating in his death at 53. Lung and heart health problems were crucial factors that led to the end of his life.


Lonely and unhappy next to everyone around him

However, while his career was booming, his private life was not particularly successful. Therefore, it must be admitted that Marie Callas was absolutely right in saying that no real artist is actually happy. Art is indescribably beautiful but extremely cruel to one who transmits it to other people.

Despite his great career success, George Michael was extremely unhappy in his love life: his first known partner Anselmo was infected with HIV (of which he died), creating great stress and fear in George, since he suspected that his partner had transmitted this deadly disease to him. He spoke about it in one of the interviews, describing great fear and despair as he waited for the test results. His next partner was Kenny Goss, a notorious alcoholic and troublemaker who also had a negative effect on George, who himself struggled with addiction.

His last known partner, Fadi Fawaz, was a typical example of a person with a purely material interest in a relationship. George was a very rich man who could afford such a luxury, but in fact very unhappy as he never, through his life, had a quality and reliable person beside himself, someone who would positively influence him and rely on him. And this is exactly what Linden characters need the most.

Therefore, one should not be surprised by the fact that throughout his life, George has struggled with inexplicable sadness. At one time he used to make a positive use of it by making his big hits, but later, grief overcame and guided him.

The side effect of rapid career success at the expense of unlived adolescence did not bypass George, like many other stars, and manifested itself through experimentation with drugs, changes in sexual partners and psychoses. What was characteristic for George was his relatively rapid physical change, especially of his face, which was clearly a reflection of his inner condition. All his changing moods, stages of addiction, depression and confusion left a mark on his face. However, despite everything his smile always remained the same, like a child's, as his eyes grew sadder with time.


Soul and reincarnation

George Michael's soul before he was born in London in 1963 had a very traumatic event. The fetus with his soul ended up in the body of a woman who did not want to give birth to him and had an abortion. His karmic mission abruptly ended there, and continued after a year, this time in the body of his mother, Leslie. Because of this, he was extremely attached to his mother and had a very difficult time dealing with her death. It was this death that awakened in him the trauma of rejection and abandonment that he had difficulty coping with. A new birth (reincarnation) of his soul will occur in a small country where he will be born again as a man, but this time as a twin, his profession will be design, and in this life he will be realized through marriage and children. In the new life, George will finally meet his soulmate, a karmic partner, with whom he will accomplish what he has always wanted and never had - love.

Snake

Among the Illyrians this animal represented one of the most important deities and protectors of family and as such it rightfully positioned itself at the beginning of the circle of destiny as the first sign. Its rule lasts from 15.10. until 15.11. Persons born under the sign of Snake are traditionalists, they’re loyal to their home and family. They don’t like changes sometimes due to laziness and sometimes because they’re not prone to taking responsibility. Only a more dominant but friendly person can spur them into action. Otherwise, they feel unsure of themselves and become stubborn.

Female snake

We must admit that women under this sign are very interesting, ingenious, peculiar, and slightly egocentric prone to refined things. They’re attracted by men which know how to impose themselves whether by their behavior or their looks. There, they reveal their naivety which is cute. They’re able to experience deep emotions, and in order to save their relationship they play their own hidden games. Work is important to them since they like to proving themselves, they can be quite thorough, but hardly accept their own mistakes. However, agreement is possible with them. When it comes to family a woman snake creates a pleasant ambiance since peace inside the home is one of her priorities. She shows love towards her children and partner. Though it seems otherwise she can be quite the fighter and knows how to fight for the person she cares for. Similarly, if she loses trust in you then there is no going back.

Male snake

Recognizable characteristic of male members of this sign is a certain stubbornness which often transforms into auto-destructiveness, or as people would say, they’re their own worst enemies. This is especially pronounced in male snakes which have a hard time accepting their mistakes, that’s why they’re faced with additional, unnecessary issues and difficulties. He’s a gourmand, he loves to enjoy food, atmosphere and attention. Often he has issues with expressing his emotions, which he likes to suppress or even deny due to an inborn incomprehensible need, though in his heart he yearns for attention and tenderness. It is pretty easy to upset him but also to scare him. But, he doesn’t show it publicly since he likes to appear strong and dangerous. He has an inclination to take care of those weaker than him, since it strengthens his ego and self-confidence. When it comes to work he is precise and detailed but not overtly fast. This is why they don’t like a tense working atmosphere or pressure. Stress affects him heavily. As a partner he is passionate, possessive and to a certain degree fickle. He is one of those partners that need to be reminded often who they have by their side.

Swallow

Swallow is the second sign in the Bosnian horoscope which lasts from 15.11. until 15.12. Persons born in this period usually lead an interesting life and they have a hard time making peace with monotony. Swallow in mythology in BiH is a symbol of luck and wellbeing and that’s why we can say that a person under this sign has a chance to succeed in life, often, with the help of family or marital partner.

Woman swallow

Among women of this sign a characteristic trait is that they’re pretty self-aware, independent, and naturally adaptable to difficult situations out of which they always manage to find something for themselves. Without a doubt, swallow is a “tough” sign which despite its emotionality in front of life’s difficulties takes control and faces issues. Social aspect is very important to them and they’re good housewives which love to host their friends and persons which they care about not sparing effort nor money so that everything is on point. Female swallow is a perfect combination of emotion and happiness therefore as partners they’re very desirable. But, that playfulness often leads them to a wrong partner therefore love disappointments are inevitable. Stubbornness is another characteristic which swallow brings more harm than good. For them it’s an issue to receive a well-meaning advice, since it goes against their belief that they can and know everything by themselves. Because of an inborn tendency for independence swallows is not a lazy sign and treats work seriously, readily taking on responsibilities which it brings. This leads us to a conclusion that they’re careerists. Often a woman swallow cultivates a special relationship with her father, and despite differences in opinion, she is very sensitive to all comments and praises coming from that side.

Male swallow

Perhaps the best and shortest description – complex personality in constant conflict with himself. He is charming, often magnetic for the opposite sex, sociable, communicative. But, though a cheerful person every male swallow has his own dark side which he hides like a black box from others and which is full of internal fears, insecurities, deviations, frustrations and complexes. But his greatest phobia is fear of rejection. That’s why he is prone to literally buying attention from others, in some way, convincing himself that everyone loves and accepts him. He is very emotional but often egoistic, vengeful, always obsessed with the past behind which stands a feeling of guilt which follows him. He is jealous, often possessive, prone to proving himself through sex, since he is not skillful in showing his emotions nor does he know how to express himself properly. A man under this sign doesn’t expect a woman to be the best housewife, nor is that important to him, what he expects the most is for her to be tolerant and not to create pressure. Namely, infrequently a male swallow will panic in front of an issue and choose the easier way out i.e. run from the problem or will surround himself with material possessions since it offers him a feeling of peace and security, but also grandeur.

Cherry

Third sign of the circle of destiny which rules during the period from 15.12. until 15.01. is called Cherry. In BiH tradition, cherry is a tree which takes a special place in the cult of the dead since its fruits are eaten by birds. Since a bird in mythological imagery is a symbol of a soul in the past it was a custom to plant cherry tree in graveyards. It was believed that a cherry growing near a graveyard will help a soul of a mejit (deceased) to free himself of sins, each time when a bird would eat its fruit. Among the folk cherry fruits are called "bird’s provision" or "ptičja nafaka". 

Female cherry

A female cherry tends to take the initiative in the seduction process, therefore she doesn’t hesitate to give compliments to a man she likes. Her tactic spurs her to more steps, since members of this sign have a hard time coping with rejection and disinterest of the other party. In the end when she conquers the man she likes, whether through the role of a gentle and vulnerable woman or an aggressive flirt, the next step is subjugating her partner in order to have control over him. Despite all of this, female cherry is insecure and possessive deep inside. Mentioned energy and persistence she doesn’t transfer onto work and career since she is not overtly hard working and dedicated to work. She is not lazy but her personal life affects her business enthusiasm. If in that segment  everything functions she is then dedicated to work. In most cases work is a necessary evil, although she respects financial independence. Though she has a tendency to be in leading roles, she more prefers team work. Tendency towards panicking is the result of her weak relationship with stress and pressure.

Male cherry

Members of this sign, male and female, can be recognized easily according to the way they dress which is always sports like and carefree. Also, the less clothes they wear the freer they feel. Male cherry is playful, he likes challenges, to be conquered and to conquer, he possesses a characteristic naivety, and when hurt he cannot stay angry for long. He’s not a vengeful person. He loves sex and everything connected to it therefore experiments in that field are not foreign to him. This is certainly the most erotic sign in the circle of destiny. He can be jealous, possessive but also stubborn. From his partner he desires attention since that fulfils him. She needs to be proactive and broadminded since he is magnetically attracted to these types of women. He is a gourmand but also prefers healthy food and such a way of life. In business he is not content with only one activity and a large part of men under this sign earns “on the side”. They’re good business partners and have no issues fitting into any work environment.

Frog

Fourth sign in the Bosnian horoscope is called frog, an animal which since ancient times represented one of zoomorphic forms of the Universal Mother – the oldest deity in human history, bearer of fertility and life. Among the Illyrians the frog had a similar symbolism and is therefore considered in Bosnian mythology as a protector of cattle, especially the cow, and milk which was used to feed the entire family especially small children. Protective role of the frog is reflected in the folk belief that when a frog arrives in front of the door she is warning the inhabitants that someone's evil is directed at them. The sign of the frog is dominant from 15.01. until 15.02.

Female frog

Members of this sign rarely declare themselves as „misunderstood soul“, since her external appearance doesn't suit what she has inside of her. In a certain way she is a rebel which is characterized by free-spiritedness which is why she is often not distanced from the man she likes. She likes to compete with the competition and she has a habit to measure and rate women around herself, usually in an unrealistic way. Talking behind someone’s back is not unknown to her. On marriage a thoughtful frog looks as a job and dreams of marrying a rich or capable man. She is characterized by a tendency to brag, therefore her partner or marriage are the best and most ideal. But, despite all of this, she is gentle and loyal to her partner, her passion is overtly highlighted, she doesn’t like to do things quickly, lovemaking for her must be long and dedicated. She treats work and career leisurely, and certainly she will never “burn up” in the work place or give her 100%. She is a good communicator and all jobs that require this skill suit her. She likes being in male company which suits her better.

Male frog  

He is communicative, focused on what interests him, curious and adaptable. His bad sides are his insecurity, cautiousness, withdrawal, lies, obsessiveness. When it comes to emotions it is noticeable that a man under this sign tends to have a dominant partner or attracts such persons unknowingly. Generally, when he is in love he doesn’t know how to take a firm stance. He is a caring spouse and tries to please. His threshold of tolerance is pretty high mostly because he is traditional, doesn’t like to be alone and his family is extremely important to him which profiles him as a success. Though in public or in front of others he presents himself as a macho he is often quite the opposite; he likes tenderness, closeness and enjoys being surrounded by harmony. In business he is dedicated. He tries to be responsible towards his family and likes to feel useful. Quite a number of men under this sign have a private business since they don’t like having a boss or they believe that they know business better than others. All in all, they’re hard working and work to them serves for making new acquaintances and increasing their circle of friends. Career success is very important to them, and affects them greatly therefore they’re prone to increased stress.

Warrior

Fifth sign in the Bosnian horoscope which rules over the period of 15th February until 15th March. This sign got its name from a brave Illyrian warrior but also because the time which this sign rules over signifies an unstable climatic period which signifies an unstable climatic period which is an introduction to warmer months in the year. According to Bosnian mythology, during this time there is a battle between north and south, cold and warm winds. That’s why the warrior is fighting evil spirits of nature and wins over them enabling with his fight the continuation of the cycle of life.

Female warrior

Female warrior is a flirt with instinctive urge to be liked by others. That’s why she is prone to present her love with her partner in public, whether it is real or not. She is of a restless spirit, leans towards the unexpected love and often fantasizes about love with a stranger. Her mind and imagination are very creative. Her emotions are pronounced and if she is lucky to have  a good partner next to her then she can bear anything. Material things are not that important in her life, except when it comes to her family and children, she wants the best for them. She can overdo things in that field and wittingly make herself a victim. In her career it is important for her to prove herself to others and to be accepted. She has the ability to notice small details and to avoid easily everything that doesn’t suit her in a given moment. She is curious and likes to research.

Male warrior

He is versatile and knows how to adapt. He likes to play the victim and claim others work since he yearns attention. If his partner doesn’t show enough attention to him, infidelity will not be unknown to him. His insecurity is best seen in running from issues or uncomfortable situations when he often uses lies which to him seem as quick fixes. He is attractive to women, his amorous glance and dedication give him a certain charm and impressiveness. He is passionate, enjoys sex and he is no stranger to small perversions. His career is important to him, most ass kissers are found under this sign, they have no issue in appearing as a good worker to their boss so that they can advance their position. Once they get a good position he then expects others to kiss his ass in order to feed his ego. In speech he often swears into something in order to give greater importance to what he is speaking and claiming, although rarely half-truths hide behind such statements.

Grandmother

Grandmother is the sixth sign in the Bosnian horoscope and at the same time the last of the dark or winter signs. It rules over the period from 15th March to 15th April. Behind the name Grandmother is located the ancient lunar goddess of the moon, female principle, which interacts with the Grandfather – ancient deity of the sun, and creates the basis of ancient pagan beliefs and cults. In the Bosnian folk calendar the period from the 15th until 21st March belongs to the Grandmother and are thought of as the pinnacle of unstable weather when snow, rain, wind and sunny weather exchange or sometimes all happen in the same day. This is the period of pregnancy of the Universal Mother which will bring a son to this world in the beginning of the light part of the year, this son is at the same time her lover, which is why nature is upset and all of her forces are moving.


Female Grandmother  

Females of this sign is a wildcat but she hides this characteristic skillfully, she is resourceful and cunning, at times a hypocrite. She adjusts to her partner, although this creates discontent in her. She doesn’t like it when someone else touches her things, especially clothes, since she cares about personal belongings. She often has a high opinion of herself and this doesn’t help her in life. She can provoke the other side by this and then in her confused way act as the assaulted and offended party. When she falls in love she becomes insecure and jealous, which makes her nervous. Loyalty to family often represents a hurdle in her personal life and she needs to learn how to keep a long enough distance so that her closest are a source of pleasure for her and not a burden. Female Grandmother usually from her earliest days is oriented towards work and creation, which can often make her a somewhat stingy person. She shows ingenuity and creativity in a business sense.

Male Grandmother

Characteristics of a male person under this sign are sociability, standing out in the crowd and hastiness. Though of a calmer nature he can be brash and prone to nervousness in all stressful situation because he experiences things personally. During communication he likes to express himself picturesquely and he can be sarcastic. In the relationship with his partner he is often passive which gives off a false sense of indifference. Male Grandmother is also passionate and emotional but he often suppresses this inside of himself, which is the main reason for his outbursts of jealousy or withdrawal. All in all others often see him as a complicated person. Male Grandmother is not lazy, work and career are important to him so that he can creatively express himself but also get a certain security. He likes to create and is a person which likes an established, calm life. According to this we can conclude that he is a family guy. At work he often doesn’t get along with his colleagues, but he knows how to hide it.

Grandfather

Grandfather is the seventh sign in the Bosnian horoscope which rules over the period from 15th April until 15th May. He represents the male principle. He got his name according to the seven day period, which according to the folk calendar lasts from 21st until 28th March and symbolizes the period of first labors in the garden. Grandfather in the middle ages in BiH was a title of priests of Bosnian Christians, his wife was called Grandmother, and as a marital couple they represented spiritual leaders. But, both of these names are actually much older since they personify two ancient (Illyrian) deities – moon and sun.


Female Grandfather

Since Grandfather is primarily a male sign this is reflected in some characteristics of the woman born during this period, which doesn’t have to be butch, to the contrary, this gives her an internal strength, temperament, protective drive and enthusiasm. But also a need to be distinguished. Female Grandfather is often proud and stubborn, prone to auto destruction because of her principles and attitude. But, regardless, she sacrifices herself, she is loyal and devoted partner to which jealousy and possessiveness are not unknown. Her emotions are pronounced and despite her serious exterior or stance, behind that mask is often a gentle and vulnerable being. When she is in love she becomes childish and it is not easy to handle her, but, all of this together is cure and stimulating for the partner. She loves to be dominant in a relationship, mostly due to her insecurity, although she can compromise. At work she is engaged, dedicated. Opinions of her colleagues are important to her since she orients herself according to this and strengthens her self-confidence. She is agreeable. Often she isn’t good with money, being economical isn’t her best side, since to a female Grandfather, material things are for hedonism or for building an image of a successful person.


Male Grandfather

Person born under this sign is responsible, prone to taking care of his family and to put his needs and desires to the side for the benefit of others. Sooner or later this causes frustration and revolt and he is often prone to frequent changes of mood and decisions. He is serene in nature, emotional, unsure of himself, modest. He possess charisma but often it is left underutilized. Often there is a battle inside of him between the desire for the traditional and modern, which can slow him down in life. He is attracted to feminine and modest partners, though he often comes across completely opposite profiles out of which later are born complicated and inadequate relationships. Though not a champion of fidelity, a male Grandfather can cheat on his partner only sexually, never emotionally, since love for him is much more than the bedroom and kitchen. If he is doing what he loves, then the male Grandfather without a doubt achieves great results. Through work he becomes optimistic since he loves creating and it’s not a problem for him to stay longer than required in the work place. If he doesn’t love what he is doing then he quickly reaches saturation and unhappiness which creates an unstoppable desire for change. However, he is scared of poverty and he takes careful steps towards something new. He loves every work which allows him to be creative since this is the sign of a creator.

Pigeon

Pigeon is the eight sign in the circle of destiny whose period of rule spans from 15th May until 15th June. In Bosnian mythology a pigeon is a bird dedicated to the solar deity and is an ideal symbol of a period in which sun receives its energy and spreads light and warmth, after the end of the dark part of the year. Pigeon is therefore a messenger-bird of the mentioned period of regeneration and triumph of nature.


Female pigeon    

The largest percentage of women under this sign have issues with their insecurity and unhappiness, over which they never completely triumph during their life, and in their younger years they suppress their personality while in some later periods it grows into a strong desire for standing out, emphasizing her looks and values. Female pigeon is very persistent when it comes to her partner and is ready for various sacrifices  in order to ensure her emotional relationship. When she is in love that state holds her much longer than other signs and we can conclude that she is passionate and possessive. Stubbornness forces her to become a victim of her emotions which undoubtedly leads to great frustrations and disappointments. She tends to idealize her partner which leads her to a subordinate role. She is a careerist, she loves money and the freedom it brings. But, she is not stingy and she will buy gifts for others with pleasure or will loan them money. She respects authority and superiors. She’s disciplined at work and when it comes to completing tasks.


Male pigeon

He can be complicated, confusing for the surrounding and fickle. He is communicative and prone to philosophizing. He is a demanding partner, a partner which desires time and attention. But, at the same time, he is fun, witty, prone to experimenting, often a gentleman. All in all, it is rarely dull with him. He is prone to domination and jealousy, although he desires a good looking and attractive partner, since it is very important for him to be noticed. When he makes a mistake he finds ways to apologize but in such a manner that his crown stays on his head. He is sociable, he doesn’t like being alone, but that often means being in any type of relationship, no matter whether he has any emotions towards his partner. His internal fear and anxiety he hides skillfully with provocative statements and acting, but, male pigeon is always different from how he presents himself. We could say that he is a great careerist, he sees work as a necessary evil. However, good earning potential always stimulates him and he is no stranger to breaking some of his principles to get money. With this sign the rule much theory little practice is confirmed.

Linden

Linden is the ninth symbol in the circle which rules from the period of 15th June until 15th July. In BiH tradition linden is a holly tree next to which Bogomils (Arian Christianity) performed their rituals. After the middle ages, linden didn’t lose its religious symbolism and was planted near mosques, which continued the religious practice for which certain anthropologists claim actually steams from Illyrian cults of trees to which they gave divine characteristics.


Female linden      

Member of this sign is refined, sociable and often eloquent. She is attracted to strong men, which are direct and spontaneous. Her pronounced emotional characteristic makes her vulnerable, sensitive, which she tries to hide. She is egoistic and doesn’t forgive her partner neglect, therefore she won’t hesitate to seek attention from another man. But, whatever happens is never her fault but the other side’s. She exhibits passive aggression. There she shows an immature nature which resists taking responsibilities for personal mistakes. In a relationship or marriage she tries to keep everything under her control, but often discretely and decently. She is jealous, which can often grow into possessiveness. She yearns for support, both in the family and from her partner, since with all her wit and creativity she lacks a push in the right direction. She has a tendency to live beyond her means and often has financial issues. She isn’t prone to save for a rainy day. Career means a lot to her although she is picky when it comes to her work place. Dynamic jobs attract her, she doesn’t like monotony.


Male linden

Member of this sign is a person which doesn’t like being alone, and often decides to enter marriage early. She is tied to his family and togetherness and support mean a lot to him. Since he isn’t overtly independent and possesses insecurity he is attracted to partners which are dominant or which take initiative. She is prone to rage outbursts because of the negative effect of stress and pressure. He is gentle, romantic and a bit traditional. Large numbers of men under this sign have issues with egoism and don’t like admitting their mistakes. He often represents himself more different than he is since he likes to mask his insecurity in such a manner. Since his nature is more laid back he isn’t overly ambitious. Business environment without much stress and hassle suits him best. There are a lot of lazy people under this sign. They have a tendency towards vices.

Salamander

Salamander is the tenth sign in the circle of destiny which rules over the period of 15th July until 15th August. In Bosnian mythology it is considered that every man has his own salamander, animal doppelganger or follower, which comes to him after his death to guard him or to devour him, depending on whether the man was good or bad. It is also believed that Salamanders are miniature versions of dragons on earth, the same one which according to legends satiates his hunger for warmth and light by devouring two out of three sun’, which were in the sky in ancient times. According to this legend salamander is a symbol of sun which positions him in the period of the year with the most intensive activity of solar warmth.


Female salamander  

Members of this sign are passionate and egoistic, sometimes selfish, prone to some immature states when they recede or simply pout. They need a flexible partner which can be in harmony with their demanding character. She is a loyal companion. Female salamander is of a restless spirit, she loves to travel, be in social gatherings and events since she “feeds” off of this and fills up with energy. She likes challenges, and even though she isn’t negative often in communication with others she can be indelicate with her statements. She loves and appreciates presents, she is prone to sentimentality. Pronounced taste in jewelry, hair dying and seeking her recognizable image. All of this is her trademark. She enjoys sex and is prone to experimenting. She is a careerist, is responsible when it comes to work and has leadership qualities. Since she leans towards having everything under control her nightmare scenario is not having enough money. Therefore she isn’t prone to extravagance, though she has a tendency of helping others.


Male salamander

He is an emotional person hiding underneath a thick layer of machoism. Whether we’re talking about expressive physical or character lines, each male member of this sign tries to accentuate his masculinity. Behind all of this is often hides fear from rejection and a great desire to hide insecurity. He is a gourmand which is perhaps not prone to creation and long term planning but he is someone which at every moment knows and wants to enjoy. He is prone to excesses, boasting and even lying, in order to present himself as a more ideal person. He is passionate, good lover. Charismatic. Despite that inborn insecurity makes him possessive. His ego often restrains him, he doesn’t like authority but respects friendship. He is attracted by passionate and communicative women. However, his love, if she desires to keep him, must be tolerant towards arbitrary behavior which he sometimes exhibits due to his hurt pride. It is known that a male under this sign doesn’t love working, and often chooses easier and simpler jobs. But, he functions well in smaller business settings, and often in individual work. Money isn’t important to him, he knows how to earn it and spend it.

Rue

Penultimate sign in the Bosnian horoscope which dominates the period from 15th August until 15th September. Sedef or sedefil (rue) in BiH tradition is tied to the cult of the dead, which is why this plant was once planted in graveyards. Besides, rue because of its prophylactic and magical characteristics is the most widespread plant in the cult of magic and incantations and practice of stravarke. It is believed that rue was dedicated to Hazrat Fatima.


Female rue

Females under this sign seem confusing to their environment because of their insecurity. There is a silent conflict between traditional upbringing and desire to be a self-confident woman which conquers and lives her own way. She is sensory and sensual, enjoys sex and certain perversions are not unknown to her. She likes to please her man in order to keep him and is therefore ready to make herself a victim in order to keep a certain relationship. We can see a character line of masochism, as well as the fact that she likes dominant males more. She is vain, stubborn and at moments of anger extremely harsh in words. But, she is a loyal friend which gifts the friends she loves and appreciates. Female rue is a careerist, she is persistent and doesn’t give up from the things she set her mind to. Her pronounced feeling for detail and meticulousness helps her tremendously to develop discipline and advance in her work place. She isn’t good with money, she lacks a feeling for profitability. She likes to buy good and high quality things, which causes her to have monetary difficulties.


Male rue  

Member of this sign is traditional and family oriented, and protective. But, what distorts this ideal picture is a provocative characteristic, exaggeration in statements and overtly pronounced ego. Passive-aggressive behavior is common to most people born under the sign of rue. He is a huge gourmand and his ideal partner is a woman which knows her way around the kitchen. Besides he is attracted by well dressed women, communicative, which cannot throw shade on his grandeur. When he courts he is direct and playful, a woman will feel content next to him since he clearly makes it known that he wishes to take care of her. He is possessive and his love is expressed through possession. He doesn’t like monotony and he will cause a fight in order to have attention directed at himself. When it comes to work he is the one that philosophizes, comments others. He isn’t resistant to stress and pressure can cause nervousness. He is always “searching himself” when it comes to career which leads him to change his work place often. He is no stranger to making money in an unconventional way.

Dragon

Last i.e. twelfth sign in the Bosnian horoscope which rules from 15th September until 15th October is called Dragon. Among our forefathers Illyrians, dragon was considered to be a deity and folk traditions describe him as a large snake with small arms and legs, covered in scales. In the rest of the story it is claimed that a dragon can have sexual relations with women out of which a cub can be born, known in Bosnian mythology as Snijet. Snake and dragon represent two totems, symbols of opposition which in unison represent the entire universe – good and evil, life and death, creation and destruction which is why these two signs took the first and second place in the circle of destiny.


Female dragon

Like a real dragon, a woman under this sign can get “ignited” and “burn up” in love which is manifested in their preoccupation with the man they like. Then they are not moderate and they will do everything to win over their partner and get his love. They’re prone to dramatization, acting like victims, and everything else which could divert attention to them. Ebb and tide of emotions exchange inside of them and they have phases of receding and attacking. Frustration makes them thoughtless with their statements and they become drastic and unpleasant. Egotism is pronounced as well as the need to prove themselves as well as to their partner through sex. Work and generally career women of this sign see as sort of release, since money allows them to be what they want, to the extent that they desire. Their issue is that they have a hard time separating their private lives from their work lives.


Male dragon

He is certainly a very specific person, prone to receding and stubbornness. He is emotional, sensitive, loves tenderness, lack of love he usually substitutes with food and sweats – since he is a gourmand. Attractive women for him are the ones with an attitude, dominant, which the male dragon wishes to subdue and subjugate in his fantasies. It is not rare that love holds him for a long time, even when the relationship ends. He possesses a certain dose of immaturity, jealousy, and he doesn’t know how to express himself correctly. His sense of humor isn’t always acceptable to others. When he loses an argument he instinctively tries to play the victim. Though not a personification of speed and agility he is a good worker, precise and focused on what he is doing. He doesn’t like risks and always plays it safe. Despite this, sometimes he has unconventional ideas and thoughts. Money and career are important to him and as he doesn’t like authority he has a greater chance for success if he chooses a career where he can have individuality and greater freedom.

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